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Okay people so this is gone be a really interesting vent so bare with me so i am a 28 years old guy and i did some research on women and now am here to present my findings 😂😂 so i haven't dated for over 2 years since i was getting my life together having a job, responsibilities and stuff but now since i got my life together the next step would be get married and start a family so i got my self out in the dating scene 😂😂 and thats when i found out i really need to do a research cause the dating scene has become the wild wild west.

So first i started chatting, talking and  going out on a date with girls around my age 25-28 and bro i found out this age group is fucked like seriously talking to them is like talking to a wall no emotions soooooo much baggage from old boy friends, soooo much trauma and sooooo much toxic relationships  they have so much trust issues they think every man that talks to them wants to fuck them they are just boring to talk to they have nooo personality at all....bzw i blame us men for them being like this we did this to them because all we wanted when we were young was sex and we said i love you when we really didn't feel it we manipulated, we lied ,we cheated just for sex. So now obviously i ruled out this age group.

Now i said okay am almost 30 so whats wrong if i date women above 30 there mature and have life experience and i thought we will have deep conversions and stuff like that so i deeped into that dating pool yea this age group will eat you alive they are so desperate to getting married its just sad at this point seriously they think there time is running so they dont even believe in love anymore and they just want someone who will marry them and have babies fast they dont even wanna date that long and it was really sad.

Okay now am like okay at this point i was really interested at this experiment😂😂 so am like okay lets go younger so i dated age 20-23 and this age group made me feel soooooo old and boring for god seek and i realized girls really want the bad boys when they are younger they dont want the stable nice guy they want that toxic guy thats gone give them so much trauma when they get our age 😂😂😂 and they turn emotion less like seriously this is a cycle and they dont sleep they expect you to be up 6 or 7 seat lady am old i need my 7 hours sleep before i go to my job in the morning they want you to go out drinking parting already did that woman so thats not fun to me any more i enjoy quit places which i can have a nice discussion becha they are annoying as fuck.

Conclusion
I know this was a long vent am sorry😂 so i didnt just date 2 or 3 women to come to this conclusion i dated a lot of them and noo i was not the problem am like the most extroverted and sociable guy you can find i can hold a conversation very well and i also realized we men did this to them granted they also are interested in the toxic guys when they are young and the cycle starts we also had a role to play and i am really confused how people are getting married this days i feel like they are just settling and not in love at all.

So clearly i know every women is not like this but i realized i think searching for love actively is a waste of time and you should really let things happen if it happens it happens if not stay single. Also am sorry to all the women i was involved with when i was younger if you turned out like this just cause i was a dick and a fuck boy i really didnt think about it at that time.

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Then there was the second guy.
Older.
A 32-year-old divorcee living in Germany.
He came into my life through my aunt—a kind of family-arranged conversation.
We used to talk a lot on the phone.
I was still young when I met him.

But he felt too old for me.
His energy, his tone, his vibe—none of it clicked.
And I felt ashamed to say no.
I thought my aunt would be mad, and maybe my family too.
So instead of telling the truth, I said I wanted to focus on my studies.
That I didn’t want a relationship.
And they accepted it.
But in my heart, I knew—he wasn’t the one.
Not for me.

The last guy was B
I met him while I was studying abroad—again through my aunt, who’s best friends with his.
He was 27, living in Germany, looking for a wife.
On paper, it looked good.
We met a couple of times.
Physically, I was attracted to him.
But when it came to conversations, things didn’t flow.
He spoke mostly German and a little English, and I felt like we couldn’t connect on a deeper level.

And then there was something else.
He had money—a car, an apartment—but no known job.
He said he worked in sales.
But people whispered.
Rumors floated.
That he might be involved in something illegal—maybe even drugs.
My aunt was excited at first about the match.
But then, suddenly, she changed her mind.
She grew hesitant. Quiet. Distant about the idea.
And I don’t know why.
But I trust her instincts.

When I think about it clearly…
That relationship has nowhere to go.
And that scares me.

Because my mom always tells me:
“Don’t reject everyone—you might end up alone.”
And now?
Now I’m terrified.
What if I never find true love?
What if I wait too long, and something happens to my dad before he can see me married, before I can give him that joy he’s always dreamed of?
I’m talking to B yes, again.
Do I think it could go somewhere?
I’m not sure.
But I want it to.
I want to believe that maybe, this time, something real could grow.

I just want to make my family happy—
Before it’s too late.
Before sadness knocks too hard on our door.
Before I regret waiting.

I want love. I want faith. I want a family.
And more than anything—
I want to believe that my story is still unfolding.
That what’s written for me… is worth every prayer I’ve whispered under my breath.

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Live abroad and I’m a 21 year old that fears to be judged Today… I talked to my mom.
It’s been a while. I missed her voice, her softness, the way her words fill the spaces in my heart that nothing else can.

But the conversation—
It took a turn. The kind I used to welcome with joy… talks about marriage, building a home, a future.
Once upon a time, that topic made me blush and giggle. I used to dream about love like it was a fairy tale I was destined to live.
Now? It feels heavier.
Less butterflies, more bricks.

She told me my dad has been sick again.
Glucose, oxygen, hospital beds…
He’s getting older.
He’s getting… tired.
And suddenly, everything in me screamed—
“I want them there. When it happens. When I finally become someone’s wife. When I start my family. I want them to see it. To feel proud.”
soon. Soon-soon.
Not because I’m rushing, but because love now feels like more than just a dream.
A need.
A sacred next step.

I used to think marriage would be easy.
Simple.
Fall in love, get married, live happy ever after.
But now I realize—it’s the most grown-up thing I’ll ever do.
Not just for me.
But for the people who raised me, loved me, prayed for me when I didn’t even know I needed prayer.

And yet… I’m 21.
Not old, but not as young and starry-eyed as I once was.
And somehow… no one has captured my heart the way I once imagined they would.

Well—maybe there was one.

His name was let say A

He was kind. Sweet. The type of boy that made the world feel a little softer.
We met back in 9th grade, but I was too innocent to read the signs.
Everyone around me thought he liked me, but I brushed it off.
Then came 12th grade—
He started waiting for me after class. Buying me chocolate, gum, little things that felt big at the time.
One day, he texted me:
“I love you.”
And it shocked me.
He said it. Just like that.

We started seeing each other more. He walked me home. We talked endlessly.
It was… sweet.
And in that time, I changed.
I softened.
He taught me how to care deeply.

But I made mistakes.
I didn’t know how to love back.
Not properly.
I was still learning myself.
I was stubborn, always ready to defend my side without listening to his.
He was hurting, and so was I.
We were young. And sometimes young love ends… not with a bang, but with a quiet goodbye.

Still, he’s the only one who ever made me feel that seen.
And yet—
He wasn’t the one.
And that’s okay.
Because I believe now, deep in my bones—
Allah has better plans for me.

That relationship wasn’t halal.
But Alhamdulillah, it ended.
And I trust that what’s waiting for me—my real love story, written by Allah Himself—will be so much more.
It’ll be right.
It’ll be pure.
It’ll be mine.

So yeah… that’s where I am.
A little tangled, a little tired, but still full of hope.
Still dreaming. Still praying.
Still trusting that what’s meant for me will find me.
I don’t know what I want you guys to say but I just want to get it all out

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26 M here , would you fake that you're a believer while being agnostic just not to lose some girl you like? and all my families are strong believers too, i feel like i should fake it all my life at least for my mom and big sis. They would be angry at me and consider me as a failure. I would take a bullet not to make them feel like that. But some times i truly wish i could find a woman who is smart, logical and genuine and love me for who i am and what i believe.

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I'm 25 and I'm addicted to porn and masturbation...Ena ehien neger lebzu gzie kemadregie yetenesa snfete wesib(tolo mecheres) tegalchalehu meselegn ena ehien chgr endiet endemkerfew ebakachihu mels stugn

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So, the story started when this guy followed me on Instagram I accepted it then I checked out his profile. He looked simply handsome like the quiet type who reads a lot and stares out of windows thinking about life. I got this philosopher vibe from him. That’s what I assumed, anyway.
Then one random night at around 2 , I saw the same guy I was with my friend and there he was buying cigarettes . I liked his hair and the way he moved like he didn’t care what anyone thought. There was this Independent, a bit mysterious, and clearly knowledgeable or at least he looked the part.
In that moment, I wished I could date him. But there was just one thing… he was shorter than me. And I’m tall Like Eiffel Tower . So I kept the wish to myself and moved on with life.
Then out of the blue weeks or maybe months later he messaged me on LinkedIn. We started talking, and it was actually really fun. He had this cool, laid-back vibe, and I was like “Alright maybe the universe is giving me a second chance here.”
Eventually he asked if we could meet I said yes, because honestly? I was curious. We met at a nice café and... well guess what?
He wasn’t as beautiful as I remembered.
Sure he reads and he knows things but the way he acted? It felt like a performance. Like he wanted me to think he was deep and intellectual rather than actually being that way. Don’t get me wrong he’s cool but it wasn’t what I imagined.
Turns out I notice details. I see things. I know what to talk about and when. And I realized... I might be smarter than I give myself credit for.
But here’s the twist when I wished I could date him I didn’t actually expect it to happen. And yet  it did.
So now I’m sitting here wondering was that luck? Fate? The universe playing matchmaker
Honestly... I don’t know. But it makes one hell of a story.

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why is everything so serious these days my God???? like why cant guys and girls be just be friends why should there always be hidden desires and agendas like give me a break. and i see people on here every day ranting about how they haven’t experience love or had their first kiss and they are most of the time well bellow the age of 20 if you’re in ur late 20s tho that’s a whole different conversation. but yk what i get it, we are humans we are literally wired to love and receive that love back, we care that’s what we do and it makes us who we are. but most of y’all perceive it as this thing that’s supposed to mend you, heal you and save you i get that having someone helps you to get/become a better human but it’s not a necessity. y’all make not being in love way more depressing that it truly is, it really is not that deep especially at this age. you’re young, so much to do so much to see of this world and the dealbreaker on whether you’re happy or not is love? out of all the things you can put ur focus on like ur dreams, passions,ambitions and you’re worried about love🙂‍↔️🙂‍↔️🙂‍↔️🙂‍↔️WAKE UP WE ARE NOT IN A DISNEY MOVIE STOP WAITING FOR SOME ONE TO COME AND SAVE YOU. pick yourself up, figure yourself out and you’ll find ur person when God says you are ready. what is meant for you will reach u even if it’s between two mountains . WHAT IS MEANT FOR U WILL FIND YOU. DENSITY WILL DO YOU RIGHT. I can go on this long talk about that moment when your parents.....yk that there could have been billion other chance to make a completely different human. But no it was you, you are the sperm that won and made it to this life. Get it together, enjoy other people’s company NO MATTER THE GENDER, heal, grow and learn, and let go, stop being so uptight and enjoy this beautiful earth and what this life has to offer because you are one-in-a-billion babyy

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Hi everyone I'm 27 m i want to talk to you about love. I have been dating since highschool and girls like me im funny and im easy to be friend with i was 14 when i had my first sx and ever since then I've been with a lot of girls but i feel nothing i only like it when i sleep with them i don't know why but i never felt love i cant understand it. I I feel like i have been living a lie my whole life ive said so many things to girls i even cant remember it now. I have nothing against girls but I've never felt anything.i feel hollow last week my grand ma passed and i couldn't even cry i started thinking didn't i love her enough to shed 1 tear or ive never loved her my whole life but i thought i loved her we were close. My behaviour with girls changed my perception of love i think but i want to feel it i want to change i dont wanna be numb for everything.

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በምታምኑት በቃ እኔ እራሴ ሊፈነዳ ነዉ, so I started going to the gym, well I used to go to the gym for like almost 3 years now but I never really worked out other than using steam sauna or the treadmill yk, beka becha this year I wanted to change my routine and started working out beka i was locked in kegn gera salay neber yemeseraw for like straight 3 months, keza there’s this one guy that be looking deep into my soul (eye contact)😭 first I didn’t give him much attention endewm betam neber megelametew yk, so the eye contact kept going for over a month almost 2 months beka meteyayet becha. As I told you before I never really gave him any attention, but this one day I was just entering the gym ena he was getting something from his bag zek belo neber ena lek siyayegn he dropped it and he kept the eye contact 😭😭it was giving ye temesgen gebregziabher “alayim kanchi lela seat” music video when he first saw her and fell in love 😂😂😂don’t call me delusional but that how literally it was okayyy. And after that incident all I think about it him. Mind you yezanem gelamechewalw😭all this yap is a lot ik lmaoo bechaaa i made my friends to go and ask for his number(NEVER DID THIS IN MY ENTIRE LIFE) betam kurat alebegn yk. And he said “meta tawaragn” i was like “oh hell nah gedel yegba “ cuz who does bro think he is😭ena elachuhalew I’ve never seen him after that day. Anddd idk what to do because all I think about is him. Help humans 😔human to human😭

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tadyas endet nachu?
am j25m

But i really feel am 40s
Like wag atbaki betesab weste nw
Yadakut
Ena i really love that sinasreatoch sinamigbar etc
Just ethiopiawinaten maninaten batam ewadawalw

Manor mifaligaw egzbher bifakd kiflahagar nbar gn
Ba kirb amatatoch weste wechi ehedalw
Just kabet bezum selamalwata abro adag guadagna yalagnem gn basira mikniyat bzu guadagnoch afarahu
la guadagnenat tilk bota esatalaw ka wendim ka ehit malayatim alfaligim

Ena gn bzu guadagnoche balatidaroch nachew
ena gize aynorachewm ena basilk nw bzu mnganagnaw gn still batam enitasasabaln eniwadadaln ena old stuff nan ena ad nw minababalaw rasu


Just abire masalifaw guadagna binoragn ds yilagnal just to have a good memoriy kamahde bafit




i love to have a friend who must 🙏🙏🙏love
Reading amharic books
watching english movies
Old amharic Musics


Just i love to share ideas to learn from you speacially

And i really happy to have a friend like this


age didnt matter just the hobbies is


thanks to have this opprtunity🙏

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Where do yall find a good guy who gives u princess treatment, cares for u deeply, fears God, calls u n talks to u for hours, tells u he loves u every single day, fills ur call log with his name, says he’s so damn lucky to have u, supports u EMOTIONALLY, shows up whenever u need him, n never loses interest even when ur too available?
a man with pure intentions, someone who’s truly THERE for u. Not someone who just wants ur body, but someone who loves U for U.The one who constantly reassures u, makes u feel safe, chooses u every single day, n stays with u till the end not just for the moment.
I’ve been blessed with so much… but not with this kind of “man.”
Do guys like this even exist… or should I start lowering my expectations?

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Today is Thursday, April 8th, 2025. I wrote this vent while sitting somewhere with coffee and a half a litre water before me because I just walked halfway home, and I needed to refill my tank before I walked the other half.

They say admittance is the first step towards change, so I'm here to admit the truth to myself.

And the truth is that I'm a loser. In whatever sense of the word, I'm a representation of a fucking loser. I have been tussling with the thought of accepting that I'm just not the person I think I am for a while now, and that has gotten me nowhere, so I'm gonna give in and accept exactly who I am.

I am a guy with absolutely nothing going for me. All my life, I've created some improbable scenario in my head to feel like I have shit going on for me, in reality, fuck all is happening.

I act as if I'm this big shot that just can't be bothered. How dare someone disagree with my idea? An idea that I pulled out of nowhere, and now I defend like my fucking life depends on it. I'm so fucking uninformed yet I'm the loudest guy in the room screaming at the top of my lungs about why my idea is the correct one.

Fucking hell I suck. I'm an asshole to my colleagues for absolutely nothing. I put on this non chalant, unbothered, fuck you leave idc facade when in reality I cried over a break up a couple of years ago. I care so fucking much it's miserable.

I act like I'm an academic genius when it took me 8 years to complete a fucking degree because I kept failing my classes. I've always been a fraud, I don't know shit I just repeat what I read and talk about it so well that I managed to convince people I'm a genius. Pathetic.

Bro, I've been masterbating for 14 years straight and still remain a virgin at 27 because I can't talk to girls for shit. I carry myself with the confidence of a zeus when if a girl smiled at me, I would get up and run out of the room because I can't flirt in real life for shittt.

All I do is make unnecessary sexual jokes and sexualize all the girls I see on the street to go masterbate to them. I've had 2 girlfriends so far and haven't managed to sleep with either of them. Why? Because I'm insecure as shit. I have an average ass dick size, and I'm afraid that I will embarrass myself.

I keep flirting with girls online, keep asking for nudes to masterbate to them, and when they don't send them to me, I end the so-called "relationship" with them. That's all I've ever wanted from a girl, nudes, I can't work up the courage to ask for sex irl.

Oh my God, I suck. I don't even know what the girls I've been with saw in me. I'm ugly as shit. When I walk down the street, girls don't see some handsome guy that has a shot with them. They see some serious faced, ugly looser who they wouldn't wish on their enemies. If a girl sent my photo in a gc as her man, she'd sustain an embarrassment of a lifetime.

My life is pathetic, my social life is pathetic, I don't have friends, the ones I do have, call me when they need something because I'm so uptight I can't even have fun. If you took me to parties, I'd be the lamest guy there.

I dress so badly. I have no sense of style, and honestly, I'm too broke to even afford nice clothes. I work and spend it on fuck all, and when the month ends I haven't even bought my self a pair of socks, not only am I ugly now I'm turning fat too because I just munch on whatever with majority of my salary going towards food.

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I have been in depression for as far as i remember and ot arose from lack of self esteem and confidence in my own face , body. As a women struggling with such things makes everything difficult for you and ... it has taken my life over. I need you guys to tell me how to be confident . I need to know how to buld my self esteem back. Tell me what books to read or what workout should i do anything.

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Hello, am F which is depressed got no one to understand here but looks like like she is okay trying to forget here thing. suffered sexual abuse from a married man who took off his ring to just …He took my future and now I am lost, sad and life feels hopeless. (He literally put up a drama for me, after a few months of meeting, he told me he wanted to act like he missed me. So, he literally was planning with his friend and over thinked for him . Basically, I was so tired after a very hectic day. But I decided to go say bye to him. I got trapped in their plan and they succeded. I have lost everything, like my energy, I was sick for several months, but now everything feels slightly better. It’s been four years so things are fading, but sometimes it feels like it’s today. I am surviving just for my family because I don’t want them to suffer losing me. I am trying to distract myself, which hasn’t been satisfying. I want to go abroad, but I don’t know how too. I have relatives out there, but I want to do this on my own.And I need support from someone who is strong in his faith, I am Orthodox.

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Hey guys 21f
I just want to get this off my mind
I'm currently 4th year at uni
But my life has been stuck ever since uni but especially after 3rd year, I couldn't get out of my comfort zone I have few friends at uni I barely talk to my other friends I don't have a job, I do not know how to socialise anymore it's been soo long since I made a new friend , i am even stuck in a cycle with my ex,I barely go out unless I have class now my screen time is so high , I grew up in ortho-protestant household which made me feel stuck on choosing a religion and I'm not even working on that I will graduate in a year but I don't know my next move the worst part is I don't know if my degree would get me jobs
Egziyaber kale I wanna go out of this country atleast that would give me a fresh start
I would love to have group of friends that would help me get out of my comfort zone
I want new environment that would make snap back to reality

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Hello there, I'm 22 M.
In my life I've only been with a single woman, she is a neighbor and we're like friends with benefits.

The thing is when I get intimate with her I don't see any sign of interest or satisfaction from her. Is it my tool, I got 6.5 lenght by 4.5 girth in inches. I can also last like 10 to 20 minutes, is that not enough. Her mood completely changes after we're done, like do woman also have post nut clarity.

I'm confused and I don't want to say anything because I'm not good at jenjena menamen, and I don't think I can get another woman if lost this one.

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Hello y'all, just wanted to ask you smtn ena eter metn yale mels new mfelgew endatenzazu...

✅ Girls don't need that guy who calls every day or smtn endeza. Kesu yelek they are more attracted to that careless guy belash tetash maylat.

Share your opinions on this shi.

📌 NOTE : yemanem shermuta eymetash afeshn endakefchi be logical and give your opinion here terf were ayasfelgm.

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Am 29 M BORN HERE AND AM here to vent
recently i lost my mom and after that everything strated to go crazy my dad got depressed and lost hope amd got very sick do u know what is hard seeing ur dad week and feeling helpless.
See when u loss ur mom and see ur dad loss hope in life and see him sick u want him to have faith and live with knowing the pain but he is stuck on her memory and he wont let go and when he see u he is reminded of her and everything he had reminded him of her and he lost hope so how can u help him while taking all ur hurt feelings sadness and bottle it up in side and live and watch me die slowly what should i do in addition to that Thursday i paid all the money in my account 114786 birr for hospital i havent eaten in two days i havent slp am in the street just sitting and watching the cars pass me its cold and i wont have anything to pay for tomorrow and i will die before i become judged for not being rich enough to save my dad it wont get to that i will die off hunger soon
Guys idfk wat to do suicide has been on my mind but i dont want to a sinner but sometimes i just want say f it and just cut my self or jump from a building HELP HELP!!!!!?????😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

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knew that we're all alone in this world ena we all have our own challenges/fetena we face, ena I didn't know how much we try to cover up this loneliness until it started to turn me into an actor-

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Hey there soo this happened like a month ago ena i met someone on from Fet yaw if you know the app becha krhone gizr behewala se vibed neger linrgba wesenen mnman and we tried for a baby i was a virgin at that time then in yhr morning he has my phone in his arms ene slken ategebe aregr nbre yethaut kza ke 2 ken behwlal i was blackmailed by my pics yaw tinsh my fave yitaybrltal and i didn't send those pic lemanem i deleted those pictures google photos backup argot new engi ene gallery laye alnberm ene delete yarkut new yemeseln kza i paid neger i was scared betam and block arguen mnman beka kza gin esu gar yezane ken be text fight argen i told him am gonna delete my account then he said why mnman i told him i was being blackmailed mnman beka i sign do in detials and i lied to him mnman kza he said he can't trust me cause i talked another guy belo he left me ena ahun sasbee it was him who did that to me ....kehone gize behwla we talked and he said he would never do that but i didn't trust him cause yezanr ken slke esu gar nbre esu eje laye nbre and i checked my gmail other stuffs mnman there is no sign of hacks mnman and ahun laye he left me i actually begged him to stay with him his only reason is because i talked another guy thats all i suffer a lot for him idk i trusted him a lot becha ahun laye i hate my self i regret everything i tried suicide mnman and i never told a soul i hate myself i hate frtarien amamrku bzu neger happened argbin ena am scared what if rndr gena blackmail bidrg mnman bzu neger ik yarkut nrgrr chrash lek endlahone mnman betam betam regret maregew gin min ladrg ahun endet endmehon idk help me

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Hi guys I don't even know how to say this not because it's a big problem but rather a silly one.

I'm average dude from looks to height to most things but the one thing I feel is ...unusual about me is my emotional attachment ,or more accurately the lack of it.Don't misunderstand I have a huge place for familial love but when we come to romantic love ... I just can't fell that click or something that apparently everyone does.I have been in few relationships and no problem sexually( infact to much libido😅) but I'm afraid that I'm a heartless asshole.

I wouldn't bat an eye if the "perfect" chick slipped away but rather regret I didn't bang her and all the women I've been with I just lose interest in a matter of few weeks to 3 months.

I know I'm young and I have a long while before the"one" or whatever but there's something in me that tells me even if I get married I wouldn't love her and that's a problem with me a huge one for me.

I want to experience Love like real LOVE. The ones I see with my Parents. The one where you cuss at eachother like you're the worst enemy but won't hesitate to shake the devil's hand to make them slightly more happy.

I'm scared I can't have that and I'm a advocate of Love prevails overall things in Life.So can someone relate or have been through this.

Can some one try make me fall in LOVE.

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20 F here
Anyone else feel like they're past the stage of making new besties? Like, the whole "spill all your secrets" thing feels way too exhausting these days. Maybe it's just me?

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I am female and 24.
When I was a kid a had a rough childhood. I grow up with single mom.
My mom was a child who needed to be cared for. I know life doesn’t treat her well and she had a hard time taking care of me. But she was abusive. I was less than 5 year old when she first slapped me so hard I was hospitalized. That’s when it started. It wasn’t just a physical abuse but also verbal abuse. I was elementary school when she start called me names and that I am not getting no way.
There were many incidents I was hospitalized by her abuse. Many people might say it is discipline but no it’s not cause discipline comes out of love. Here’s was revenging her cause of suffering. She said I am all the things that gone wrong with her life but I was just a little girl who is taking all the blame I didn’t cause.
When I get older I ran away for few years. But the trauma is always there.
Now I am all the things my mom never wished me for. I graduated my degree and will finish my masters soon. Work with international people and I reunited with my mom. But I couldn’t let go of what she did to me and how much medication got me here.
She is now a broken woman with so many health problems. Life humbled her so much but idk how to let go of the past. I couldn’t accept her as my mom.
Am I being selfish??

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Hey so am in uni and idk why gn am gaining weights like am in comfortable place or stg i don't even eat that much am non cafe btw gn am still getting fatter and fatter every day so what would u recommend me to do i cant take proteins everyday since am not home and i dont got a lot of money for that and i can't get in to gyms cuz i cant treat myself .

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I’m 18 (female)

I really need some advice, guys. I’m confused right now.

So, there’s this guy I met on Telegram. He’s so sweet, mature, and caring like, there are no red flags. He told me his past relationship was toxic, and now he wants to treat me better and make me feel loved.

The thing is, I’ve never been in a relationship before, and honestly, I don’t want to be in one right now. But I feel guilty because he’s head over heels for me, and I’m not giving him the same energy. I don’t want to lose him, but at the same time, I don’t want to waste his time either.

I thought about giving it a try, even though I know deep down it probably won’t work out he’s 27, doesn’t have a job yet, and we’re from different religions. That makes things even harder.

I’ve told him before that we shouldn’t talk anymore, but after a month, he begged me to speak to him again, and I gave in. Now I don’t know what to do.
Should I give it a chance even if there’s no future, or should I stop texting him completely?
Please help me out

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Am 21 male here is the thing I was a freshman student when I found out that my mom got 2nd stage cancer so I made my mind to not go to university so my family was rage full Abut it my question is Will they get over it

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Hi guys, 25F
Have you ever Got obssesed, sooo jelous of another girl , i Admit. 😭😭😭😭😭
So it started when i met this man, he is the most hundsome, cool man i ever seen, and we fell in love, we used to talk every minutes, he wasnt financially stable so he wasnt ready to settle and i needed to find someone to spend my life with, so i ended the relation, and he moved out of the country,,, but i kept missing him and he wont let me forget him by texting me once in a while, and its been 2 years.. i was dating other boys but i compare him with everyone ,he was my last kiss, why cant i think like my age and move on, andddd so a year ago when i was stalking him i found this Gorgeous girl and i noticed he follows her on every damn social media and i found out they dated for a while and they broke up and her posts was all abt him and i related to it and slowly i started comparing myself with her (she is everything i ever wanted to become) and she is his type, and im kinda preety rn gn 2yrs ago when he knew me i was kinda ugly( i literally had a glow up) but still am not her, i even asked my best friend to flirt with him and he literally said that she is the preety girl pretending to be fake person, so that was my line i lost a lot of feeling but im still obssesed with her style, her posts, and when i see her new posts i cry like crazy bc i wanna be her, her confidence drains me, she is btw famous person,,,,,is there even anyone who relates with me.

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I’m a medical student, and there’s a girl in my class I’ve had feelings for over several months. We’re classmates, so our interactions mostly happen during hospital rotations or group projects. At one point, we were placed in separate project groups, and during that time, I didn’t see her as often. Surprisingly, my feelings for her seemed to fade a little. But once the project ended and we started working together again in the hospital, those emotions came back even stronger than before.

Since our schedules revolve around clinical duties, it’s been hard to find moments to talk to her alone. Most of our conversations happen while working, which doesn’t leave much room for personal connection. However, I once gathered the courage to ask her to hang out outside of class, and she agreed. We spent time together chatting, but afterward, I wasn’t sure if there was a genuine romantic spark between us. Despite this, we still talk regularly, and I can’t shake my feelings for her.

Part of me wonders if she sees me only as a classmate or friend. She’s kind and engaging when we talk, but I don’t know if she’s interested in anything more. I want to text her more often and openly express how I feel, but I’m terrified of making things awkward or being rejected. If she doesn’t feel the same way, it could affect our friendship and our dynamic as classmates, which adds pressure since we see each other daily.
How can I figure out if she has romantic feelings for me? And if she does, how do I transition from being seen as just a classmate to someone she might consider as a potential boyfriend? I don’t want to rush things, but I also don’t want to miss my chance. Any advice on reading her signals or approaching this situation thoughtfully would mean a lot.

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So here’s the thing there’s a guy that I am in the talking stage with. We know each other from university, and everything was good we talked a lot. But all of a sudden, he said to me that my best friend's boyfriend must be a very lucky man. He knows her from university too. At first, I thought, 'Okay, yeah, she’s very beautiful and kind,' so I didn’t think it was a big deal. But after thinking about it, I found it kind of weird, and I started to stop talking to him like before. Do you guys think I did a good job by not talking to him, or am I just overthinking it?"

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Hello i am 27f n the reason am venting now is that i was in some kind of situation ship for around 5 months we work in a same firm but he's a manager of yehone department n he came to train us n i caught feelings right the first moment when i saw him then we talked on tg n we had few dates one thing leads to the other n we did some physical things except for s*x ofc... So through time i developed intense feelings coz he's everything tt i wish my husband could have(he's 6 years older, he's in his full masculine state )afterwards things start to become complicated then we ended wtever it was but after that i got too obsessed n ended up calling him everyday, txting him, i even searched his friends contact n told zm all zy were so surprised but adviced me to let him go coz he's no good ene gn lefta alchalkum beka 24/7 my tot selsu hone even he had taken me to his home ena i know it (lela set wesdo ayakem even his gorbets were surprised seyayugn yane ya demo tesfa endenorg argegn yeblt) keza ahun sentala betu ga etbkew nbr bagnew eko alawrawm betam nw emferaw demo🤣😄...becha i tried alot sim keyayerm awrawt coz block argogn nbr ena he said lanchi beye nw legodash alchlm mnamn ene metw akatgn beka i prayed alot ena asked God endyasrsagn guess wt i end up seeing him in tt same church... Meto eko emyawk lij nw🤣🤣becha ahun we don't talk enm kelimit balfe lemnkut i heard lela relationship endjmr n guess wt he's planning future within 2 months mlt nw.... Becha he was saying be 1st loveu mknyat he's lost his heart i tot mafkr ferto enji endflgn based on his actions coz afu lela his all actions demo lela selnbt becha am fucked up. Help me out specially zos girls/boys older than me.

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