Hi, siapa kangen?

Hallo, TBLovers! #BLISSCLUE

We’re writing this with mixed feelings a bit of relief, a lot of sadness, and endless gratitude. After a long thought, we’ve decided to closedown @THEBIGLOVE. Not because we stopped caring, but because we’ve reached a point where we simply can’t keep it going the way we used to.

TBL has never been just a channel it was a space where we grew, shared, laughed, and met so many kind souls who made every moment worth remembering. From the very beginning until now, every chat, every memory, and every small moment will always stay close to our hearts. We want to apologize if, along the way, we ever made mistakes or disappointed anyone. And to everyone who supported us, interacted, or even just stopped by thankyou. You’ve been the best part of this journey.

As we close this chapter, we kindly ask that no one plagiarizes or reuses the concept, theme, or identity of @THEBIGLOVE. If you find anyone doing so, or have any concerns regarding our name or content, please reach out to us directly at @TBLsOfficeBot.

Maybe @THEBIGLOVE is ending, but the warmth and love that built it will never fade. We hope everyone keeps moving forward, carrying the same spirit that started all this @THEBIGLOVE. Thank you for everything.
See you again somewhere new, as stronger versions of ourselves.

Sincerely love, Fo/BCrew.

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Selamat untuk semua Miel yang terpilih! Mohon kirimkan ID kalian ke bot (jika belum) dan buka privasi grup chat agar admin bisa membantu menambahkan kalian ke room play. Untuk Miel yang belum terpilih, jangan berkecil hati. Masih banyak Melk tampan yang siap datang menjemput kalian, seperti es krim yang selalu menyegarkan hari. Heaps of gratitude.
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༅  Kriteria: [] I’ve always admired someone who’s emotionally grounded. Bukan tipe yang setiap ombak datang langsung goyah, tapi yang bisa tarik napas dulu, pause, let her feelings rise and settle before deciding how to respond. There’s something so powerful about that, it tells me she’s been through storms, yet learned not to let every raindrop drown her peace. It shows she values resolution more than ego, and honestly… that’s rare. That’s something I deeply respect. I’m drawn to the kind of girl yang bisa keep the air light, especially when things feel heavy. The one who can read the room, lempar joke kecil pas suasana awkward, atau tiba-tiba bilang, “Eh, awkward banget ya?” just to remind me everything’s gonna be okay. I like talkative, but not the kind that overwhelms. I like the kind of talkative that feels like a safe rhythm, yang nggak bikin capek, malah bikin betah. Every thought she shares, every random story, every little confession… it flows naturally, kayak angin sore yang sejuk. I could listen for hours and still want more. Playfulness? I love it. The bubbly, spontaneous energy yang bisa nyalain hari yang lagi dull. The kind of person who randomly sends a pap just to show how her day’s going. Just to say, “Hey, I’m here.” And honestly? I’d do the same. If it makes you smile, kalau itu bisa bikin lo happy meskipun cuma sedikit, I’ll do it over and over again. Because to me, relationships aren’t built hanya dari big moments. It’s the small things. Daily kindness. The little “have you eaten?” texts. The random memes at midnight. The inside jokes only we understand. The shared songs. Semua hal kecil yang kalau dikumpulin, jadi satu bentuk bahasa cinta yang paling tulus. Being in a relationship shouldn’t feel like a job interview. We don’t have to be serious 24/7. Kadang kita butuh nonsense, obrolan ngaco jam 2 pagi yang somehow feels like therapy. We need the softness. The play. The silly. Someone who can ground me just by existing. Yang bisa ngobrol dari topik receh sampai deep, dari cerita masa lalu sampai hal-hal yang bikin insecure, tanpa harus pura-pura perfect. I won’t lie, jealousy in small doses? Hell yeah, I find it adorable. That quiet “you’re mine” energy? I get it. As long as it’s healthy, datang dari care, bukan kontrol. I like when she cares enough to feel a little possessive, but wise enough to let trust speak louder. Yang tau kapan harus speak up, kapan harus diem. Someone whose presence doesn’t overpower mine, but complements it. Yang nggak butuh script buat ngerti satu sama lain. The kind of person who just gets it. I’m looking for someone who feels like home. Not a performance. Not perfection. Just comfort. Just realness. Someone who doesn’t try too hard to impress, because she doesn’t have to. The raw, unfiltered version of her is already enough. So if you ever wonder what kind of girl captivates me? It’s her. The one who chooses peace. The one who laughs with her whole soul. Talks with intention. Doesn’t fake it. Sends me a voice note just to say she misses me. Knows when to be soft, and when to be strong. Stays even on the quiet days. She doesn’t need to prove anything, because being herself is already everything. Just be you. That’s all I’ll ever need.

Bagi para Miel (FEMALE) yang merasa memiliki kecocokan, silakan sampaikan perkenalan diri Anda melalui @. Format perkenalan bebas, namun diharapkan mencantumkan ID untuk kemudahan identifikasi. Setelah mengirimkan perkenalan, mohon berikan konfirmasi dengan menuliskan "Klaar, Melk!" pada kolom komentar.

#AMOURVENUE @THEBIGLOVE
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Kalau lo cerita soal cowok lain, gue bisa manyun diem-diem… kecuali itu bias lo, nah itu gue manyun sambil ikut cheer dia juga. With me, lo bisa jadi versi diri lo yang paling raw!! mau ketawa lepas, mau nangis pelan, mau rant panjang, atau bahkan ngilang sebentar… gue ngerti. I’ll be your second home, tempat lo bisa balik kapan aja. I’ll stay, commit, care, and be the one who’s in your corner no matter what. Responsiveness? Gue 100% on it. Spam me all you want, 100 messages? 200? Gue bales. Not because I’m obligated, but because I want to. If we share humor? Perfect. Kalau nggak? Gue tetep spam lo memes sampe lo senyum. Music? Jangan tanya. I’ve always admired someone who’s emotionally grounded. Bukan tipe yang setiap ombak datang langsung goyah, tapi yang bisa tarik napas dulu, pause, let her feelings rise and settle before deciding how to respond. There’s something so powerful about that, it tells me she’s been through storms, yet learned not to let every raindrop drown her peace. It shows she values resolution more than ego, and honestly… that’s rare. That’s something I deeply respect. I’m drawn to the kind of girl yang bisa keep the air light, especially when things feel heavy. The one who can read the room, lempar joke kecil pas suasana awkward, atau tiba-tiba bilang, “Eh, awkward banget ya?” just to remind me everything’s gonna be okay. I like talkative, but not the kind that overwhelms. I like the kind of talkative that feels like a safe rhythm, yang nggak bikin capek, malah bikin betah. Every thought she shares, every random story, every little confession… it flows naturally, kayak angin sore yang sejuk. I could listen for hours and still want more. Playfulness? I love it. The bubbly, spontaneous energy yang bisa nyalain hari yang lagi dull. The kind of person who randomly sends a pap just to show how her day’s going. Just to say, “Hey, I’m here.” And honestly? I’d do the same. If it makes you smile, kalau itu bisa bikin lo happy meskipun cuma sedikit, I’ll do it over and over again. Because to me, relationships aren’t built hanya dari big moments. It’s the small things. Daily kindness. The little “have you eaten?” texts. The random memes at midnight. The inside jokes only we understand. The shared songs. Semua hal kecil yang kalau dikumpulin, jadi satu bentuk bahasa cinta yang paling tulus. Being in a relationship shouldn’t feel like a job interview. We don’t have to be serious 24/7. Kadang kita butuh nonsense, obrolan ngaco jam 2 pagi yang somehow feels like therapy. We need the softness. The play. The silly. Someone who can ground me just by existing. Yang bisa ngobrol dari topik receh sampai deep, dari cerita masa lalu sampai hal-hal yang bikin insecure, tanpa harus pura-pura perfect. I won’t lie, jealousy in small doses? Hell yeah, I find it adorable. That quiet “you’re mine” energy? I get it. As long as it’s healthy, datang dari care, bukan kontrol. I like when she cares enough to feel a little possessive, but wise enough to let trust speak louder. Yang tau kapan harus speak up, kapan harus diem. Someone whose presence doesn’t overpower mine, but complements it. Yang nggak butuh script buat ngerti satu sama lain. The kind of person who just gets it. I’m looking for someone who feels like home. Not a performance. Not perfection. Just comfort. Just realness. Someone who doesn’t try too hard to impress, because she doesn’t have to. The raw, unfiltered version of her is already enough. So if you ever wonder what kind of girl captivates me? It’s her. The one who chooses peace. The one who laughs with her whole soul. Talks with intention. Doesn’t fake it. Sends me a voice note just to say she misses me. Knows when to be soft, and when to be strong. Stays even on the quiet days. She doesn’t need to prove anything, because being herself is already everything. Just be you. That’s all I’ll ever need.

Di bawah bintang-bintang yang bertaburan seperti sprinkle di atas es krim, kami kembali membuka gerbang! Sang Melk hadir dengan daya tarik memikat menggunakan [SHINYU] sebagai muse.

Ditujukan kepada seluruh Miel (FEMALE) yang berminat untuk menjalin hubungan dengan Melk, berikut adalah detail profile dari yang bersangkutan...

༅  Nama: Shawn Leech
༅  Muse: Shinyu
༅  Sifat: [] Hi there, cantik. Mind if I borrow a little piece of your time? Cuma sebentar kok, I promise.
Nama gue Shawn tapi please, don’t be too formal. You can call me owan, or even something completely random yang cuma kita berdua ngerti nanti. Nickname lucu? Gas. Before anything else, let’s set the record straight: apa yang bakal gue tulis ini pure dari hati. No fake lines, no acting cool for the sake of it. Everyone sees the world differently, and me? I’m not the type who instantly clicks sama semua orang. Awal-awal gue mungkin keliatan chill, easygoing, kayak nothing really fazes me. Tapi truth is… di dalem kepala gue lagi buffering kayak Wi-Fi lemot, bukan karena cuek, justru karena gue peduli kebangetan. I overthink, I replay things in my head, all just to make sure the vibe feels natural, warm, and real. Here’s one thing about me: I’m not a convokiller. Gue nggak bakal ninggalin lo di tengah chat, nggak bakal ghost out of nowhere. Gue selalu try to keep my energy steady, consistent. Gue tipe yang lebih banyak denger daripada ngomong, tapi gue notice semua hal kecil. The way you tell me about your weird dreams, your go-to snacks, that one emoji yang selalu lo spam… gue inget semua. Because to me, those details matter. Kalau suatu hari nanti lo lagi capek banget, lagi ngerasa dunia berat, I want to be that safe space buat lo. No pressure, no judgment, just me being there. Mungkin gue nggak selalu punya kata-kata sempurna, tapi gue bisa janji satu hal, gue stay. At the start, I can be a bit reserved. Ada sedikit pride. Gue nggak langsung clingy. But once we’re close? That’s it. You’ll see the clingy side of me. Random “I miss you” texts di tengah hari, inside jokes yang cuma kita ngerti, memes jam 1 pagi, sticker bombs tanpa alasan. I don’t play it cool when I fall, kalau gue jatuh, gue crash. Dan gue nggak percaya sama cinta setengah hati. My love language? Quality time. It doesn’t have to be fancy or expensive. Kadang cukup duduk di call, nonton film bareng, ngobrol sampe matahari terbit, atau cuma diem sambil baca chat masing-masing. Movie nights? Always down. Shared playlists? Let’s build one. Deep, unfiltered conversations till sunrise? Sign me up. Gue tuh full loyal. Non-negotiable. Gak ada drama, gak ada main-main. Kalau lo jujur sama gue, gue match your truth with mine. Kalau ada masalah, I won’t run. Gue nggak takut ngobrol, nggak takut berantem asal endingnya kita ngerti satu sama lain. Humor? Itu makanan gue. Gue suka bikin orang ketawa, entah dari bad pickup lines, cursed memes, jokes receh, atau tiba-tiba gombal norak. But even behind all that chaos, gue serius soal connection. Kalau gue udah pilih lo, gue bakal invest waktu, perhatian, bahkan bikin playlist khusus cuma buat lo. I’m quite active too, kita bisa main games bareng, TOD, SOD, tebak-tebakan, questionnaires random, atau bahkan virtual date im up to anything I can be your gamer boy if you want. Lo mau vibes ala-ala nonton bareng di call dengan background musik + fake movie ticket? Gue siapin. I don’t need constant romance, tapi gue suka playful love-hate banter. That teasing, that push & pull? Delicious. Tapi kalau lo tipe yang suka soft affection all the time? I can do that too. Gue adjust to your rhythm. Jealous? Iya. Not the toxic kind, tapi yang “I wanna be your #1” kind of way.