Hands are not just props during a blowjob or cunnilingus, in fact, my love, they are your secret tool!

So where to put them?

Remember - the main thing is to feel your partner, his vibe. Therefore, you can gently stroke his hair with your hands, it relaxes and creates a feeling of closeness, but do not overdo it!

You can gently hold the head of your loved one, directing the movements so that you feel most comfortable. Men really like this)

In general, do not get hung up on one place...

The neck, back, chest, thighs - all these are erogenous zones that can and should be explored.

If it is cunnilingus, then you can gently stroke the inner thighs at the same time...

And you know what else?

Sometimes it is enough to just hold your loved one's hands, look into his eyes and be close - this creates a powerful emotional connection between you.

Just please, my loves, don't let your hands just hang in the air, as if you don't know where to put them...

And don't be too intrusive: don't push, don't tug or squeeze your partner if you see that he doesn't like it.

Now tell me, what tricks do you have with your hands during oral sex?

Breaking stereotypes and going beyond the classics...

Many of you think that sex without penetration is not the same at all.

But I disagree!

This is not a replacement for classic sexual intercourse, as many couples think, but rather an addition that will help you get to know yourself and your other half better.

TOP techniques that you will 100% like:

Body-to-body

Maximum tactile contact. You need to strip naked, apply a generous amount of massage oil and start rubbing against each other with your whole body.

Your focus is on erogenous zones: chest, stomach, thighs, neck.

Frottage

Rubbing the genitals against each other through clothing or without...

Be sure to use a lubricant, otherwise it will not be very pleasant, sometimes even painful.

Handjob/Finger

Hand sex) It would seem, what's new here?

But here you can experiment using different techniques, for example, stroking, pressing, tapping.

Edging

Playing on the edge of orgasm.

You deliberately bring yourself or your other half to a state of strong arousal, at the moment when orgasm seems inevitable - stop. Then let the arousal subside a little, and start teasing each other again.

Darlings, which of the above techniques did you like the most and why?

Orgasm should not be the only goal of sexual intercourse!

Relaxation, concentration on sensations and sufficient stimulation are the three pillars on which truly good sex is built.

After all, if you are fixated only on a certain result, your body will be tense, so you will never get pleasure.

And in general, quite often intimacy even without an orgasm can be much more pleasant than, for example, with it.

Therefore, remember, if your other half enjoys the process itself, but does not always reach climax - this is normal!

A problem can only arise when severe stress appears due to the lack of an orgasm, and in connection with this, your emotional state can greatly worsen...